Guys? Please, please help me?

Fire with fire, love. Its almost impossible for a long distance relationship to work in the first place, but you are making an effort. If he is taking less time for you, take less time for him. Best way to see if he cares. If he feels he's losing you, he'll make a better effort. If he feels like he got rid of you, you'll see even less of him. Its pretty important to learn if he cares about you as much as you care for him because if he doesn't, there are plenty of local guys willing to take his spot (wherever local is for you).